My wife and I are new to all of this stuff. This whole experience has only happened in the last month. 

This is pretty long, but I think it will be worth reading. I’ll give the back story first so you can understand the whole context. 

I’ve always been faithful to my wife and she to me, I trust her. She’s only 28, me and my buddy that she was with are in our late 30s. 

My buddy (JJ) and I have known each other since high school, and she met him through me of course, when we were dating. 

He lives in another state now, but stops over to see us when he’s in town on business (which I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s more often now..LOL) and stays the weekend. He just went through a terrible divorce last year and (which he didn’t want and still wears his ring) we haven’t seen him since that

We were cuddling in the hotel sauna alone. Sweat drenched our bodies as we just wore our bathing suits and had towels around our waists. We endured the intense heat as we just relaxed in silence. Then her body shifted and she got right on top of me.

She kissed me once. "I love you, husband."

"I love you too, wife."

We heard people outside the sauna, yelling and having fun in the pool. Then she lifted herself up off me and her feet met the floor. She left the towel, wandered to the door and looked out there.

Her eyebrows rose up. "Let's have some fun in here," she suggested, looking back at me.

She closed the door and walked back towards me, but stopped about two feet in front of me.

"What are you doing?"

Her hands moved onto her back. "Being spontaneous," she answered