we started to discuss our fantasies with one another later on into our marriage. about 10 yrs in.

i told her my main fantasy was to see her with another guy.

hers was to have sex with 2 guys at the same time.

after a couple of years talking about it during sex we were ready to take it to the next level.

but who to decide on? my wife did not want to include a total stranger nor did we want to